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But why learn how to be a good kisser?
Simple a great kiss is like a drugor magic, depending on how you look at it.
Its the climax of every great love story.
Some even say that a great first kiss is better than the first sexual encounter.
But a kiss gone wrong can be a true tragedy.
Thats why we lust after those we consider a great kisser and forget the people who arent.
Not every kiss is great and leaves us wanting more.
More goes into a kiss beside puckering up and locking lips.
No worries if youre not there yet.
We all start somewhere.
And remember that kissing is a skill you’re free to learn.
Before this article ends, youll be kissing to your fullest potential!
But if you know thatkissing might be on the agenda, a little preparation can go a long way.
Chapped Lips?
Keep Those Moisturized
Have you ever tried kissing someone with chapped lips?
So, dont forget to prep your pucker!
First, see to it your lips arent cracked or dry by keeping them moisturized.
But if you dont have one on hand, hydrate by sipping some water.
It can quickly moisten your lips before puckering up for that kiss.
It makes everything more pleasurable for everyone involved.
Carry Those Mints with You
Want another way to guarantee youre going to kiss like a pro?
Two words: fresh breath.
Not great at all.
Worried about your breath?Then having some mints on hand is always a great idea.
But what if youre already in the restaurant, enjoying your date, and youre out of mints?
Simple tip ask your server for a slice of lemon and drop it in your water.
Citrus has antibacterial properties that can neutralize bad breath.
Processed cheese like Cheetos is not a great idea either.
The same goes for cabbage, broccoli, and tuna.
Alcohol is another popular drink when going out on a date.
But you might want to limit yourliquorto a few shots, especially with whiskey and mixed drinks.
Have you heard of alcohol breath?
Not very good for your kissability.
Respect Consent Always
You might feel comfortable surprising your partner with kisses in a long term relationship.
But its always important to have someones consent before you touch or kiss them otherwise.
Whether you think the mood is right doesnt matter unless you know someone wants you to kiss them.
The secret is to look them in the eyes and whisper those words slowly, intently.
Dont you think so?
or Do you want to make out?
And double-check you get their answer, and youre on the same page before leaning in for a kiss.
They might say, No or Maybe another time or Not here.
But that doesnt mean you have to feel obligated to kiss every single one of them.
You dont owe anyone a kiss.
So, how can you become a much better kisser?
Weve got the secrets to becoming the best kisser right here.
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Build Up the Big Moment
Kissing is like an art, or an almost dance.
It takes finesse like you would whenflirting.
So start simple and slow, and try out your sexy kissing moves once it feels comfortable and natural.
Maybe start with a peck around the lips or a light swipe of your lips past theirs.
The key here is to leave your partner wanting more, not imposed upon by the kiss.
That is why slowing down at the beginning is important.
It doesnt only add a little tantalization, but it allows you to take note of their moves.
So, take your time, note their personal preference, and then gently do it back.
Youll know you got their message if they respond to your kiss with enthusiasm.
Maybe let your new partner lead.
Stick Your Hands on the Good Spots, My Friend
Okay, so youve locked lips by now.
But what are you supposed to do with your hands?
Do you just let them hang loose on your side?
Of course, not.
The human body has many sensitive spots that can be incorporated into a good lip-lock.
A good make-out session is a lot more than just a lip lock.
Use your entire body.
Try pressing up against them.
Thats one surefire way to turn a good kiss into something hot.
Major kissing mistake right there!
No to Nibbling, Yes to Tugging
Im sorry do you like your lips nibbled?
Yeah, probably not.
Honestly, you wouldnt want to subject your lips to that kind of assault.
But do you know what makes a good teeth action?
Two words: gentle tugging.
Not an actual nibble, right?
With that said, introducing a bit of teeth to the kiss demonstrates a different intensity of your desire.
Close Your Eyes
Eye contact is always great, but now is not the time for it.
Another bad idea, this one!
Try looking into someones eyes while youre deep in a kiss.
Thats seriously bizarre, if not creepy, and a surefire way to kill the mood.
So, keep your eyes closed while making out.
But there are other reasons you should not take a stab at look creepy.
Kissing with your eyes closed can make the kiss so much better.
Have you tried eating ice cream with your eyes closed?
Youll find it more amazing.
Thats because when you block out one of your senses, the others become heightened.
The same goes when kissing.
Passion is everything, so dont get scared to be sensually aggressive.
Maybe let your hands wander and go for other erogenous zones or pull each other closer.
If it feels good, let yourself moan.
Its an instant addition to the sexiness and makes for a steamier kiss.
Have Make-Out Sessions Every Chance You Get
Weve saved the best for last practice.
As they always say, practice makes perfect.
Practicing how to kiss is for teenagers, and it sure didnt teach you much.
But having regular make-out sessions might!
So, as your relationship progresses, remember to kiss often, every chance you get.
And dont forget to let those kisses linger and even turn them into full make-out sessions.
But a steamy, romantic kiss can pack a serious punch.
Neck kisses, anyone?
Kisses on the lips are great, but other unique kissing spots can also drive your partner wild.
Exploring these areas of the body can definitely give you that and more.
Many men and women prefer a variety of kisses.
Surprise is one of the exciting elements that can take kissing to the next level.
Always pay attention to what your guy or woman wants.
Feel the mood to find out what kind of kiss is best for the situation.
And dont forget to enjoy the moment.
And if you do come across a bad kisser, dont swipe left just yet.
Consider giving them a second chance, especially if the date was going great.
One bad kiss is not a deal-breaker.
Although a kiss can make or break a connection, remember that its a skill.
Meaning it can be learned!
