Not everyone has an immediate connection witheffortless communication.
Communication relies heavily on the connections we have.
So, dig a little deeper and ask her about herself.
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What should you do when asking a girl questions?
There are three rules to adhere to when asking a girl questions.
Also check out our list of thebest questions to ask a guy!
What are questions to ask a girl to get to know her better?
Start with the basics, and get more granular as the conversation progresses.
First things first, introductions!
And youdefinitelydont want to call a girl youre interested in by a different name.
So, verify you ask for her name and commit it to memory.
What do you do for work?
Simple questions will get the ball rolling.
Go ahead and ask about her current occupation.
Maybe the two of you are in the same field and can geek out and talk shop together.
Regardless of her career path, this question will help segue from your initial salutations.
What is your dream job?
When she was growing up, did she dream of being a veterinarian or a rocket scientist?
Has she grown up to succeed in the career field she dreamt of as a child?
When is your birthday?
We all have a birthday, so you might as well ask her when she was born.
She could have a birthday coming up soon, giving you two an excuse to hang out.
(As if you needed an excuse to see her.)
You might also ask what her sign is.
How do you celebrate your birthday?
This question is a good follow-up to asking when her birthday is.
Have you ever broken any bones?
Not everyone makes it through life unscathed.
Some people are so accident prone they could have a hospital wing named after them.
Asking about medical history is a social faux pas when youre only beginning to get to know someone.
But asking about minor injuries, such as a broken arm, is harmless.
Is there a book you could read numerous times without ever growing tired of it?
Ask her about her literary prowess.
Is she an avid reader or does she just find comfort in a certain novel series?
If youre a bibliophile, youll certainly have something to add to this question.
What was the last book you read?
Similar to question #7 but broader.
Would you rather spend the night playing video games or board games?
Game nights are an excellent way to bond with a girl.
But first, find out which form of entertainment she prefers.
If she says neither, ask her for an alternative activity indoors.
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Could you ever see yourself abandoning your current lifestyle in exchange for a nomadic life?
Where do you stand on the pineapple pizza discourse?
The internet has been feuding for years about the moral standing of pineapple pizza.
Asking her opinion on the bromeliad topped pizza will definitely help move the conversation along.
If you could go back in time, without changing the past, where would you go and why?
Maybe shes a history buff that wants to experience a major cultural moment.
Or she might be more sentimental and choose to experience a moment with family members from her past.
Do you use social media?
Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, or does she abstain from all forms of social media?
If she has the same accounts as you, this is your chance to add her on it!
Just, double-check youre not too over eagerit could (rightly) come off stalkerish.
Whats the biggest event youve ever attended?
This question is good to ask if youre someone that frequents concerts, festivals, or other large-scale events.
If you were in a band, what instrument would you play?
Were all guilty of fantasizing about the life of a rockstar whether we admit to it or not.
Get to know a little more about her inner workings of her mind.
Is she the eccentric lead singer, or the reserved, yet cool, bassist?
Lighthearted questions like this are a great way to keep the conversation playful.
How well do your tastes line up, and how much does it actually matter?
These are great indicators of taste and personality.
Do you collect anything?
Part of building relationships is opening up to someone about your passions and interests.
To spend the time, money, and effort to have a collection implies importance.
If you could bring to life any idea for an invention what would you create?
This is a fun question that will give you a chance to see her creative side.
Did you play sports as a kid?
Was she out on the field or sitting on the sidelines?
What was the last movie you saw in theaters?
If youve seen it, compare your thoughts on whether or not you liked the movie.
If you havent seen it then ask her if its good.
Use this as an opportunity to ask her to go catch a movie with you sometime.
Have you ever traveled outside of the country?
Is she a jetsetter or a homebody, and how does that mesh with your lifestyle?
Of course, dont drone on and on or bore her to death if shes uninterested.
Whats your ultimate travel destination?
If the two of you share a dream destination, then go ahead and plan your ultimate trip together.
It doesnt have to be serious, just have fun with an imaginary vacation.
Maybe if youre lucky it will happen later on.
Some tasks are so mundane but necessary it feels like pulling teeth to perform them.
However, we all have different opinions about which monotonous responsibilities are the worst.
Would she jump at the chance to never brush her hair again or never wash the dishes?
Her answer may surprise you.
Whats one of the first memories you’re able to recall?
This question is sure to bring about some interesting answers.
If its the first memory we can remember it must be pretty important.
But sometimes the memories that stick with us are more absurd than they are significant.
Either way, it can be fun to talk about!
Get an idea of what your future could hold with this question.
If you were reincarnated as an animal, what animal would you most likely become?
Everyone has a favorite animal but what animal does she see herself as in a different life?
This is an example of a fun question that could deviate towards a deeper conversation.
Take it a step further and ask her why she would end up as that specific animal.
Just be ready to give her your answer as well.
You could also frame the question as what is your spirit animal?
Do you have any hidden talents?
When it comes to hidden talents the word talent is subjective.
These could range from juggling, to playing the guitar behind her back.
What is the most bizarre dream you remember having recently?
We all have dreams, some of us just dont remember them all the time.
When you go to an amusement park are you there for the rides, snacks, or both?
How much of a thrill seeker is she?
Its much more fun to ride a rollercoaster with a cute girl.
Have you ever seen (insert your favorite movie here)?
If she has seen it, hopefully she enjoys it as much as you do!
Whats your biggest academic achievement?
Get her to brag about herself and find out just how impressive this girl really is.
What are conversation starter questions to ask a girl you dont really know?
Have you been here before?
How has your week been?
Simple, but it works to keep conversations alive.
Go ahead and embrace small talk.
Not everything needs to be a vigorous debate.
What did you do on your last day off?
How long have you lived in the area?
Have you been neighbors for years or is she new to the area?
What are you drinking?
Whether youre at a coffee shop or bar this question is a good choice to break the ice.
If she seems interested in talking to you maybe offer to buy her a second drink.
Below you will find 25 fun and flirty questions to ask a girl you like.
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Whats your most absurd turn on?
Do you have any unconventional attractions?
Something that drives you wild but isnt part of societies set beauty standards?
If you do then go ahead and ask what her absurd turn on is.
This question remains lighthearted but digs a little deeper into what shes attracted to in a man.
It also requires the two of you to open up to each other more intimately.
Whats your most ridiculous turn off?
Does she have any major deal breakers that arent exactly problematic to anyone but herself?
Wheres the craziest place youve ever hooked up with someone?
Learn more about her mischievous side and ask her about the craziest hook up location.
Is she down for a spontaneous hook up or does she stick to the bedroom?
Are you flirting with me?
Its probably safe to say shes being flirtatious.
But why not ask her?
Just be sure to sound slightly flirtatious yourself when posing the question!
Have you ever been skinny dipping?
Have you ever gone home with someone after the first date?
What are your chances of taking things a little further?
Whatever her answer to this question is, it doesnt take away from her autonomy.
Do you ever make the first move?
Add a little emphasis on the ever in this question.
Make it sound like youre waiting for a cue to make a move or not.
Which is totally fine, youre definitely game.
8. Who is your celebrity crush?
Find out who the lucky bastard is.
What Hollywood hunk are you up against?
Because if its Henry Cavill you might need to up your game.
What is your worst, yet most comical date experience?
Some dates are so awful you never want to relive them, even as a story.
Others are so bad theyre hilarious.
These are the dates where we sit there thinking, holy shit this is a terrible date.
When can I leave?
To then look at the time and realize youve only been there for half an hour.
What are some of her hilariously bad dating experiences?
Take some tips from this question so you never end up as the answer in the future.
Whats your most shameful experience involving a man?
Has she ever completely embarrassed herself in front of a guy she was seeing?
Maybe shes sent a text to a guy that was about actually about him.
Have you ever been hot for a teacher?
Were not talking about anything taboo here.
Just a simple question about whether or not she found any of her past educators attractive.
12. Who was your first crush?
Did she have a crush on her childhood best friend or the popular boy in school?
Or was it just a poster in her bedroom of the it boy at the time?
Whats your favorite pickup line?
Cheesy pick-up lines to the front!
Now is the time to follow-up and jokingly ask her if it hurt when she fell…from heaven.
What did you think of me the first time we met?
Did she find you irresistibly handsome or was she unsure if you guys were going to hit it off?
You think about me?
Which songs would you put on a mixtape for someone you had feelings for?
Taking the staple questions like, Whats your favorite music?
and reworking them is a creative way to take the pressure off of someone.
Youll get a better idea of what genres she enjoys with this question.
What fictional character reminds you of yourself?
Does she relate to Khaleesi from Game of Thrones or is she more of a Rachel from Friends?
Make it flirty and reply with, Does that make me your Ross?
Its okay to be corny sometimes!
Remember to always be ready with a reply and your own personal twist on the question.
Whats the worst pickup line someone has seriously used on you?
Has someone actually asked her about her fall from heaven?
Or worse, has a guy referred to her as milady?
Learn more about what turns her off by asking her to recant her most cringe-worthy pickup attempts.
Whats your love language?
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How do you like your eggs?
How else will you know what to cook for her the morning after she spends the night?
What do you find most attractive about yourself?
Find out what traits bring out her self-confidence.
Definitely reassure her that shes right but throw in something extra too.
This is a great way to give her a compliment without making her feel uncomfortable.
What do you consider the sexiest quality about a man?
Is she a fan of a five oclock shadow or a chiseled jawline?
What qualities or physical attributes does she find appealing?
Do you know youre really distracting?
In this case, its good to be distracting.
Let her know you cant keep your eyes or mind off of her.
It will definitely make her smile and probably tell you to shut up, but she doesnt mean it.
What would our couple name be?
Then youll be ready for the tabloids.
Do you cuddle in bed or immediately roll over to the opposite side?
Ask this question and youll never read into her bedtime body language.
Where should we go on our next date?
Go ahead, be presumptuous!
Youll also be letting her know you cant wait to talk to her again.
What are personal questions to ask a girl?
Intimacy and trust are going to form the more two people share their more personal feelings.
Are you close to your family?
Asking about family is bound to lead to an interesting conversation.
Watch for somebody and facial cues though because this could also be a sensitive topic for some girls.
Do you have any siblings?
Any sibling rivalry or are they a couple peas in a pod?
Its okay if she is an only child.
Just take the lead and maybe tell her about your siblings instead.
Do you have any nieces or nephews?
If she does have siblings, what about nieces and nephews?
check that you tell her you think shes most likely the cool aunt.
Have you thought much about having kids of your own?
How close is too close when it comes to living near family?
So, shes close to her family.
Does she live across the country from them, or does she live down the street from them?
Do you have any irrational fears or phobias?
Heights, spiders, clowns,the Pope?
We all have something were afraid of.
Expressing our fears to other people is another way to build trust and companionship.
How do you decompress after a stressful day?
Its important to know.
That way youre never the one interrupting her when shes trying to wind down.
Have you ever broken any laws?
If yes, did you get caught?
However, sometimes the mistakes we make are illegal.
Find out if shes led a life of crime or has been guilty of the occasional traffic violation.
How much do you value communication in a relationship?
However, if she is bad at communicating then youll need to know when to take the lead.
Do you prefer to live alone or with roommates?
Is she a solitary person or does she enjoy having company at home?
What are funny questions to ask your girlfriend or crush?
So, the more she laughs around you the more she will associate you with happiness.
If we were a couple on HGTV House Hunters, what would our occupations and price range be?
HGTV is widely known for their real estate series House Hunters.
The show consists of couples on the market for a new house.
The show has recently become a meme due to the inconsistent occupations of the couples and their price range.
So, let your imagination run wild and envision your life together in the alternate universe that is HGTV.
Would you vacation on Mars?
The Mars invasion is underway.
Theres already a plan to build aspace station hotel, whos to say Mars isnt next up?
Find out if her adventurous spirit is out of this world.
What would your reality TV show intro be?
When a reality TV personality is introduced there is usually a monologue to accompany said introduction.
Have her come up with a quick bit about her more outlandish traits.
How do you eat a cupcake?
Theres no deeper meaning here but it will most likely make her laugh because its such a ridiculous question.
Do you think the Olympics should have an average person competing in each sport to provide a baseline?
And if so, which sport would you look forward to seeing most?
These are the best athletes of our time.
But wouldnt it be great to see a comparison?
What was one of your biggest oh shit moments in life?
Weve all had moments where we realized we were in too deep.
What would your fight song be if you were a professional boxer?
This is another creative way to ask what music she likes, without directly asking what music she likes.
Do you think Carole Baskin killed her husband?
In the spring of 2020 the world was faced with a question, did Carole Baskin kill her husband?
The social quandary that stemmed from Netflixs docuseries quickly became the go to subject online.
If you could choose your high school superlative what title would you give yourself?
Was she the jock or the class clown?
What are deep questions to ask a girl?
Here are 10 deep questions to ask a girl.
Would your adolescent self be proud of who you are today?
Sometimes people might be so humble they have a hard time talking about how amazing they are.
This question makes for a great tactic to ask her how proud she is of her accomplishments.
Are you a religious or spiritual person?
Religion and spirituality can be a sensitive topic to bring up but its an important one.
Remember to be respectful and dont make a run at convert anyone.
What do you do with a shopping cart when youre finished using it?
There is a virtual litmus test circulating the web that is called The Shopping Cart Theory.
Would they put it back where it belongs or leave it in a parking lot?
What are you hoping to accomplish in the next few years?
This question is a less stringent way of asking someone what their five-year plan is.
Do you keep up with world news/politics?
Although politics affect everyone, some people arent keen on discussing their stance.
Others dont even keep their finger on the pulse.
Before you bore her to death with your political commentary find out if politics are her cup of tea.
Have you ever had a close encounter, or experienced what you would call a glitch in the matrix?
Is she a Scully or a Mulder?
If you were able to gain the ability to see the future would you seize the opportunity?
Having psychic powers and being able to see the future might seem like a good idea on paper.
But when you really breakdown the repercussions are they worth it?
Does she want to know what happens next in life or is she fine living life day by day?
Are you a glass half full or glass half empty jot down of person?
Negativity gets old after a while.
Figure out early on whether or not shes an optimist or a pessimist by asking about her worldview.
9. Who would you consider your hero?
The story that accompanies this question can also reveal a lot about her personal life.
Do you have a personal code of ethics?
Where does she stand as far as virtue ethics are concerned?
What are good questions to ask a girl about love and relationships?
Tread lightly in this category if youre the jealous jot down.
Only ask the questions youre ready to hear the answers to.
Do you believe in soulmates?
Does fate play a role in her love life?
Youll be able to learn about her personal beliefs surrounding love by asking this question.
Have you ever had a serious relationship?
Some people have loved and lost while others have been flying solo forever.
What happened to cause her last serious relationship to end?
So, shes had a pretty serious relationship in the past.
But what ended things?
Did she choose to call it off, or did he?
Is she ready to start dating again or just looking for fun?
Have you ever been in love?
Have you ever lived with someone you dated?
Has she ever taken the plunge to live with her significant other?
Theyre notstillliving together, right?
What actions do you consider to be too clingy or possessive?
Its good to ask what a girl thinks appropriate behavior is for a guy she likes.
That way, you also wont be sitting around wondering if shes really into you or not.
Are you still friends with anyone you dated in the past?
Contrary to popular belief, remaining friends with people youve dated is a good thing!
This shows a level of maturity many have yet to reach.
Of course, there are times when closeness might seem a bit too close.
Asking her upfront allows you to launch the line of communication now and help build trust.
Do you consider yourself a jealous lover?
Having a jealous streak isnt all bad though.
Do you prefer simple displays of affection or extravagant expressions of adoration?
Are flowers enough or does she need a grandiose display of affection?
Ask her about her preferences before you go all out for a date.
Whats your dream date?
What are this or that questions to ask your crush?
This or that questions are simple, just choose one or the other.
No further explanation is needed to guide you through adding these to your arsenal of dating talking points.
Use these quick this or that questions as a way to break up the monotony in a conversation.
What are key points to remember about asking a girl questions?
There are three key points to remember about asking a girl questions.
Firstly,conversations are not meant to be monologues.Dont go on long rants about yourself.
you better have a healthy back and forth.
With this list youre sure to be able to hold your own with a girl you like.
make a run at maintain a cheerful tone while you ask a girl questions about herself.
An unhappy tone could lead her to believe you arent interested in what she has to say.
Dont go into your date unprepared.
Just remember, your date isnt an interview.
Choose to listen carefully to her answers, and use these questions to further organic conversations.
What questions do you like to ask to find out more about someone youre interested in?
Let us know in the comment section!
